The reason I ask is that there have been a couple of times (luckily, not very many) where I have been tempted to leave - if not bad feedback, then at least neutral, but I haven't done so because I've heard so many internet horror stories of vengeful sellers stalking people and harassing them, or nasty buyers conducting a campaign against a seller because of one bad incident. I like to Keep Things Noice, so when I'm not overly happy with a purchase or a purchasing experience I tend to just shut up and not buy from there again. For example:
1. Some products I bought from an Etsy seller took AGES to get to me - over a month. Now, if there were something on their page saying that their products usually take 2-3 weeks to ship (they may have been making them individually for each order or something), then fine. Or if there were some delay due to life getting in the way and they either posted a notice to that effect or emailed their customers, or even included a short apology note in the package, then fine. But I heard nothing. Now, I already had my back up because this particular seller had ridiculously high shipping costs compared to anyone else I'd bought similar items from, so the delay just peeved me even more. When the products finally turned up, I didn't like them. In fact, I really hated them. The scents smelled cheap - like the kind of perfume oils you'd buy in The Reject Shop, and there was a lip balm that was actually really good quality but SO overscented that directly under one's nose it smelled like vomit (Noodles agreed with this assessment). But I still left mildly good feedback because:
- Maybe they were ill and that delayed the sending, I don't know. Most of their feedback was along the lines of praising fast shipping, so I thought it must have been an anomaly.
- The postage cost - while annoying - wasn't worth getting strung out over, to me anyway.
- The like or dislike of a scent is a personal opinion, and I don't know that I should be giving bad feedback based on that.
I didn't leave bad feedback on that second one either, but I wish I had. I thought the fact that she immediately abrogated herself of responsibility (Oh, damn Australia Post!) was crappy - what the hell did she think I was going to do? Sue her? I also thought the fact that she didn't offer to fix or replace it was a bit rubbish as well, though admittedly I didn't ask. (It's not that I minded fixing it myself at first, but she could have offered, you know?).
So... I don't know. Where's the line between petty whinging and a legitimate grievance? I don't ever want to be one of those people who drives e-tailers mad with constant complaints and higher than reasonable expectations, and I don't want to get retaliatory bad feedback after being honest with someone either (I have the same username pretty much everywhere I shop so that could have ramifications of its own).
What do you think about the whole issue of feedback?
I've ordered on ebay quite a few times and I had an issue with the seller sending me a wrong item 3 times so far! I contacted the seller first before leaving any feedback to see if we could fix the problem! I don't like leaving negative feedback!
ReplyDelete1st case : the seller (a woman) apologized, we actually chatted a little bit through messages on ebay and she offered to refund the value of the wrong item PLUS the shipping for ALL 3 items I had bought AND she also let me keep the wrong item!!! Wow!!! Amazing!! (she didn't have in stock the item I had originally ordered) ! I'll definitely buy from her again!
2nd case : The seller (a woman again) sent me a pink Barry M Glitter Dust instead of a pink Barry M Dazzle Dust! I opened it to see if I could use it anyway, but it was almost pure glitter!! So, I told her that I had opened it, but it wouldn't work for me and she offered me two solutions : refund the money for the wrong item or send me any other item from her shop with the same value as the one I had ordered! I opted for the second one! ;) I'll buy from her again!
3rd case : The seller had a picture of Revlon Colorstay Eyeliner pencil and sent me a Revlon Eyeliner pencil (old one) instead! I sent her 2 messages, one a day after receiving my parcel and one 10 days after receiving my parcel ! No reply!! And she doesn't state anywhere that she's gone for a while or something! I haven't left any feedback yet, I'm gonna send her a 3rd message now and if she doesn't respong within a week, I'll leave negative feedback, my first one ever!
I always try to be nice and friendly and resolve any problems through contacting the seller, but this 3rd seller is really bad!! I state the problem and I ask what we can do about it! :)
( wow that was really long!!! lol )
Hi Stavroula, I agree that trying to resolve the issue first is the best way to go, but every now and then you just get shafted. It sucks. Hope you get your third one sorted out.
ReplyDelete*respond, not respong lol
ReplyDeleteI just sent her a message saying that this is the 3rd time I'm trying to contact her, I copy/pasted my original message and I told her at the end of the message that I've never left negative feedback, but I have a problem and she keeps ignoring me!
ReplyDeleteSorry, but you have been warned and I gave you 3 chances to correct your mistake!! Not my fault!!
I hope it will get sorted out too! :)